| At our October 2008 Gathering Sheila Cassidy gave two inspiring addresses based on her experiences and reflecting upon what she learned over the years. The initial talk was the story of her time in Chile in the 1970's when I was asked, by two of the Santiago Jesuits, to treat a man on the run from the secret police. The weeks that followed were a time of terrible pain, fear and loneliness, but also ones of particular closeness to God. Sheila reflected upon how she believed this experience prepared her for her later work with men and women facing death from cancer.
As a spiritual director, I found something Sheila said about the Chinese character for 'Listening' which inspires her listening approach in her work:
When I have to teach doctors and nurses about my work I show them the Chinese character for listening. It is a composite sign. It includes a sign for listening with the ear -you must hear a person's story, but also the tone of their voice, the inflections, the break when they are near to tears. Then there is a sign for the eye - I make eye contact but I also take in the person's dress, face and body posture; people usually change posture dramatically when they are afraid or ashamed. Finally there is a sign for the heart - we must listen with the heart, allow the person's pain to enter into us or vice versa, experiencing it as if it were our own. These are the attributes of the good listener;
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The work of SIgN is facilitated by a Core Group. The main ways in which the Network furthers its aims are:
Gatherings of the members take place twice a year usually in March and October and are an opportunity for members to meet together and exchange news. A speaker is invited to lead each gathering and since 2003 we have invited speakers to reflect and provide input on different aspects of the Exercises broadly following the pattern of the Weeks.
- A twice yearly Newsletter.
- Members are provided with a Membership list which is arranged by area so that they can easily network with others in their location.
- Smaller Local Gatherings
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